You may have been able to make sure that everything is going well and your decisions have served well in the accomplishment of your big goals so far. But sometimes it doesn’t work, it really doesn’t work, maybe it seems to go wrong, all wrong. You have to take some decision hurriedly and soon after that you happen to realize that it was a wrong one.
Be honest, be innocent and people will deceive you, hurt you, but believe me, you will not be harmed. Surprised? How is it possible? It’s really possible and that’s the only possibility in the world. So, don’t worry about it. It’s easy too.
Silence and words become substitutes to each other at the moment words opt to keep quiet and silence starts speaking. This happens due to immense understanding between two people. It feels good when you know that someone may ignore your words but cannot ignore your silence.
Communication is the master key to unlock power of mind and drop egos of the mankind, making people know the real human beings inside us. Ego stops you from being what you are. Your ego is certainly not you. Your ego is a wall between you and your mind.
No beginning is a real beginning without the end of the pain you have endured. No end is an actual end without the beginning of the bliss you are going to witness. That’s life. It demands a balance between pain and bliss, between beginning and end. You cannot live a satisfactory life if you are not ready for a balanced life.
Do you find easy for you to tell a lie now and then in order to come out instantly from every damn situation of life? Does telling a lie save you from many scenes creating, tensions, headaches and unwelcoming situations? You tend to avoid upcoming pain by taking this painkiller in advance that is called a lie. If yes, this is for you.
Not just once or twice, I have traveled to Agra a few more times, of which two were official tours, both in 2013. Every time, experience in this city has been an awesome one.
Have you ever thought of boarding a train and being in it for a week, except getting down each day to see a peaceful tourist place and get in the train again for all night journey towards the next destination? As I was working with the publicity department of a hotels and hospitality company, they made it compulsory for me to go on this tour.
Sometimes, the people around you are so negative that you feel negativity persisting all over. They feel negative, talk negative, do negative, and the sense of everything becomes negative, making it a mess. And you get fed up of searching some air of positivity amidst all this rubbish.
Some days are hectic and tiresome, demanding a high level of effort and hard work from you. And you find yourself struggling and may be achieving nothing significant at this moment. But after enduring the pain during long working weeks when you are relaxing your physical and mental muscles at home now, you look back at those tiresome days again.
Your routine life makes you just crazy and you start looking for a break. For me, visiting my hometown and spending time at home is a perfect break. And I took this break in last week of March for a week of vacation in Varanasi, which met an end on last day of that month.
It turns out to be an awesome feeling when after so many days which you have spent as routine lifestyle, you come across a moment that was all set to provide you with some new gusto. Similar kind of feeling I came across on a day in mid this month, a day that can be called a well-spent one.
Every story doesn’t have to have a perfect ending. Even many stories don’t need an end itself. Without an end, they give an ideal message to their readers. Don’t they? If they don’t, still they give their readers a scope to conceive their own messages, put their own point of view and make their own ending of the story. Some stories meant to be incomplete, unfinished.
Results may be awaited yet or may be you have had them not at par with your expectations but what’s important is the processes you went through, the experiences you got and the moments you lived. With same feeling for me and for many other dreamers like me, the year 2012 has concluded.
Many times, people’s thinking about you, their opinions about your life and their interference in your personal matters, put extremely adverse impact on your physical and mental health. Your self-esteem goes downwards drastically and you find yourself almost worthless in your own eyes.
It’s true. It’s false. This is right. That is wrong. Wow…good. Damn…bad. Have you set your life and world within the boundaries of these few words and phrases like true, false, right, wrong, good, bad? Have you conditioned your mind in this way? Then this is for you.
Many times in life you find yourself caught up by several confusions, and don’t know which way to be taken to reach your desired destination. These are the times when the life comes up with a host of such challenges which have the capabilities to make you or break you.
It was a hard nut to crack but as I became tougher and tougher on it, it became softer and softer with me. It always had been difficult when you were easy but once you happen to become tough, it turned out to be easy. It’s your life.
Is life really difficult for creatures like us? Is it the most complicate puzzle of the universe? Or is it like a situation that is very complex? I tell you life is very simple. If there is someone who makes your life a complicate task is you yourself, and nobody else. We get life in its simplest form and put all the efforts to complicate it.
This time I took a four-month break from writing a blogpost. There were lots of episodes I could have penned during this period but they were so small and somehow I didn’t want to ink them before coming to a conclusion. I have concluded some of those chapters.
You see your problem is a big one and it is getting bigger with time. You want to escape it by whatever possible way you can. No such ways seem to be visible which can take you out from your problem. What will you do now? I tell you, you have the best possible way out right now – a solution that you are not willing look up to.
Does a problem come to stay or go away? Does every problem have a solution? How and when solution makes its way? And can a problem exist once the solution takes over the stage? The answer is – a problem cannot last because every problem has a solution.
Love cannot be scaled, whether it’s mine, yours or anybody else’s. It possesses an infinite existence, with neither a start, nor an end. How can you scale your love for them? How can you compare their love with yours? What is the meter to scale the love in the world? What is the method or formula to calculate love in a life?
We really want to do something that means to be a passion of life. May be it’s a creative task, sports, business, politics, motivational or inspirational speaking or a study. But we hesitate of doing it and never pursue it, sometimes not even in a whole life. Why? We seek perfection but are not trying because we don’t want to look novice.
You have your big dream. You have to make it a reality. You do all the efforts to achieve it. You endure all the pain and struggle of life for your dream. And one day…finally one day, you achieve it. But what after that? Do you feel you are on the top now? Are you too satisfied with your life’s success? Do you have nothing to do next? Are you done? It may be.
I have a goal. I have to run. Track is mine. Race is mine. I have to achieve my goal. I have to break the records, my own past records. I have no time to check my competitor’s progress. I even don’t know who my competitor is. When you are running on the track, your mind, eyes and body are targeting the goal that you have to achieve before anybody else touches it.
What is dream? A dream is a mix of thoughts, images and inspirations which find space in your sub-conscious mind. The visualization of those mixes of thoughts and past or present realities in an interlinked episode in your mind while you sleep is called dream.
Do you find yourself saying yes for every demand whether it is valid or not, without considering its right and wrong aspects? The demand could be from your friends, family members, neighbors, bosses, clients, business partners or other stakeholders. If yes, this is for you.
If I set my goal and start my race, I must be sure that I am not the only one seeking that target. There are many who are looking to achieve similar goals as me at the same time. I am not the only one on the race track. There is a huge possibility that when an idea came into my mind, many others may have already started working on it.
It’s not just about me. It’s about anyone who claims that they want to change the world. And it’s about those who boast of not going to change with the world. Yes. You got it right. I was born to change the world and not to change with the world. When I say that, here arises a question – what change can I do to the world?